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                               Healing Happens ‘Deo Concedente’(God Willing, Insha’allah)                 

 
   
  When clients tell me that they feel more positive, or how their lives have changed so dramatically for the better, or they have found their path and so forth after sessions with me, it is easy to forget that healing happens if god and you, the client, wish it and I am only an instrument.

The tenet above, ‘healing happens god willing’ is also useful to remember when on a rare occasion a client seems to be taking one step forward and two steps back and I begin to wonder if I am in the right profession. It not only keeps me humble but also forces me to place my faith in the universe, in the client’s own process.

I am in that unenviable profession where when a client says,(and one who came to the UK from USA actually said this) “I think I came to the UK just to meet you. I cannot even begin to describe how much you have helped me… and I will come back when I need help again. Goodbye,” I feel such intense gratitude—even though it means loss of income!

To go back to why someone would not want to get better (unconsciously), one reason is something called ‘secondary gain’. For instance, a person who is chronically unwell may receive a lot of attention and sympathy from friends and family. The person then might feel they have more to lose if they did get better. Even if I make the client aware of this conflict, they may still choose to stay unwell. They believe if they became healthy again, they would lose the attention, become ‘ordinary’, not get the special treatment, so in balance it’s better to stay sick. I can’t judge them, can I?.

Sometimes people ask me if I recommend ‘remedies’ to what I see in their horoscopes and I say, EFT is the remedy I offer. 

The astrological chart tells you about your personality, your conflicts, strengths and weaknesses or in the predictive parts, what’s coming ahead.  And this understanding generates enormous relief.

But to remove the conflicts, the source of the blockages, requires EFT.  To manifest what you want, e.g. more money, you need to understand and erase the emotional and psychological Beliefs that are stopping you from having more money. A sapphire ring is usually not enough, lovely as it is!

I believe we are co-creators of our lives.  What is happening externally in your life, is exactly what’s happening internally.  We are creating our own reality every single day so it’s no good blaming the planets, god, karma or your neighbour!  I also believe in the ‘law of attraction’.  What we are thinking of constantly, what we are focusing our attention on is what we are generating in our lives—what you focus on becomes your reality. 

So although you may want a wonderful relationship, if your unconscious belief is that you are unworthy, you are flawed in some way, don’t deserve someone who can love you, that you are not lucky enough and so forth, that is the reality you will create, without exception. Your conscious or especially unconscious Beliefs govern your life and will continue to do so until they are removed.

So to change your circumstance changing the Belief you hold is the most crucial part of the healing, also sometimes the most difficult. 

Guilt, Fear, Low Self Esteem, Repressed Rage etc are some of the most common emotions we use to sabotage ourselves. Some of the most powerful thinkers of our times have constantly said that life is not meant to be a struggle and yet we rarely go through a phase when life seems easy.

With Astrology I help you understand your life’s journey and with EFT I empower you to travel with confidence.

After an astrology session with me you will have greater clarity and insight about your problems. Understanding the meaning behind a painful experience makes it not only bearable but (at least on a soul level) you can benefit from it by learning what it is trying to teach you.

With Astrology I help you recognize your inherent tendencies which result in negative experiences and patterns and with EFT I can help you change or create new patterns, permanently. Yes Permanently.

With predictions about your current and future trends, I can help you maximize your potential during the good days ahead and alert you to the difficult times so you can face the challenges with more ease.

So my constant endeavour and Intent is to Empower the client, to help you become free of blockages, conflicts, fears, guilt etc. so that you can live to your fullest potential, to have the life you want.

If you want me to make decisions for you, I am not the astrologer you want.  If you want just tea and sympathy, I am not the EFT practitioner you want.  I work very hard and I put my heart and soul into every single session, with every single client.  I am unconditionally committed to your Highest Good and I let You, God and your Higher Self decide what that is.

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Be Well

Neo